Plagarising.
"There is no need to lose what you have or whom you are in a relationship. It takes two individuals to make a couple. Yes you may understand me, but can you accept me? The key is when you know the difference between the two." Quoted from Anonymous femme.
Quoted from Eric's friendster profile.
For me, I don't really bother myself with whether our characters match well, or they clash. You cannot determine the stability of a relationship based on just the characters. Throw in some essential ingredients like trust, compromising and communication and perhaps things are good to go. How about the flaws then? Don't get bothered about it. Because it is just that special something that covers up the flaws flawlessly. So much so that sometimes, you just don't see any flaws anymore.
Let me "change" my sex into a female for now: "Do I owe my partner anything at all when I receive gifts? Do I feel obliged to be with him since he put in the effort to make and give me things? Anyway I do feel for him also."
No. This is not the way to do things. Very wrong thinking.
Then consider again; How about the efforts that had been put in by someone from the past, whom you might still have feelings for? Wouldn't you be more irresponsible to the person from the past then? Wouldn't it be more unfair to that person looking at the fact that he did so much more than the new guy?
I always think that the world is unfair, and I know that it is true now. I shall prepare my proposal for orientation again.
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