Fine day today, eh?

Today was a pretty fine day. Not much eventful things happened. Had dinner with her and went home.

My friend was complaining to me about his relationship...and i felt so intrigued by it. Here's how it goes....

Let's name my friend's gal as X. X was out with her friends window shopping around town. My friend met her for dinner and went back home. Then as he got home and started chatting with me, he told me that his gal is going to some pubs to drink with her friends.

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HD: What's wrong with her going drinking with her friends? Moreover they haven't meet up for quite sometime already, let her go then.

Friend: That is not the point. I have no problem with her going out and enjoying herself in her company of friends. The main thing is, she has school early in the morning and needs to be up in the morning. And she told me just now that she is going to be very tired tomorrow before she even know she's meeting up with her friends for a drink.

HD: Then ask her to go home and rest after school lor. After all they are her friends what, and she has her own life.

Friend: Okay, she is meeting me tomorrow, and i know how easily irritated she can be if she doesn't have enough rest. And i feel that most of the time, i am taking the "rap" and being her stress ball. Not that i cannot accommodate to that but she has to understand that she will be tired tomorrow right? At least spare some thoughts for me, if not for herself. It's not like this would be the last time gathering right?

HD: Hmm i see your problem here.

Friend: And she said something which got me so disappointed. She said that it is her life. Wah piang eh. Yes i know she have her own life but spare a thought for me loh. She jolly well know that when she is tired, she treats me like a stress ball and yet she wants to go. Did she spare a thought for me? This year, i have friends asking me out on weekdays and i have school the next day also. I didn't agree because i know i will get tired during school hours. On some occasions, i don't have school the next day and yet i turned down their offer although i didn't meet up with them since last year also. Because i know she won't like it. Perhaps she doesn't know all these but i see no need in telling her because this is how i feel i should accommodate to her in our relationship.

HD: . . .

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Sounds interesting eh? Well, as i've said previously, girls are from Venus, boys are from Mars. We can't do anything if they refused to listen to concerning words of advice right?

Hey friend, take it easy there yah? Life's beyond our control.