Things That I've Realised.

A few things which i realised must be fulfilled in order to sustain a relationship:

1. Trust and freedom
2. Ability to compromise with each other.
3. Sweet, tender loving care.
4. The ability to give and take, ask and receive.
5. Don't do stupid things.
6. Mutual communication.

If things still go wrong, 1. there must be a thrd party, or 2. she had changed her idea of an ideal boyfriend which you cannot fulfil.

Sometimes, it really sets me pondering about how to sustain a relationship. All these things are the basics. But in the case of one party having the feelings faded, what can you do? I need the experts.

I believe i still stand a chance. But are things going to work out still? I am waiting and not waiting at the same time. I believe in fate and destiny. Fate had brought us together in Nov 1997 and separated us in Mar 1998. Fate had once again brought us together in Mar 2002 , and separated us in Dec 2004. Is this a cruel joke or just a test? Will it make us stronger if we get back together? Will we be separated again? My mind is full of questions and answers but i believe some of my answers are wrong. In fact, most.

A sense of apprehension surrounds me. If i give you freedom, will you give me trust? If i give you compromises, will you return it also? How strong are your feelings for me? Do u have feelings for me because of the things i do, or do you have feelings because of me. Just simple, plain me. Loving me for who i am. That is all i ask for.

Sometimes i think that life is a sickening joke. But life is interesting as well.

Joke No. 1:

Hong Da was cycling at night. He saw a snail on the ground. He braked and skidded and fell down so that he won't kill that snail.

Joke No. 2:

Hong Da.

Well, lameness sustains life. At least for me, that is what i think.

On the outlook, it seemed that i might had gotten over things. Happy, extrovertic and lame. But do you know what am I thinking about every minute and second?

I love William Su Yong Kang.